Yesterday I attended the Commit to Creativity workshop hosted by Krista Vernoff, show runner for the Grey’s Anatomy TV show and others. After doing 2 writing exercises during the workshop, I feel inspired and energized to write more articles here on my blog.
I’ll discuss the workshop and share those 2 powerful writing prompts in a minute. First, I want to discuss my plans for this blog going forward.
I want to write more frequently, and I want to write shorter pieces sometimes.
I also give myself permission to write more about my own journey as a recording artist, writer, and owner of a membership site. While I’m changing my format and focus somewhat from more substantive content that I’d call “teachable moments” — I will still write those, of course! — I think the lessons I learn and observations I have along the way will still be relevant to other narrators and authors who are publishing their work in audiobooks.
With that said, let me tell you now about the workshop yesterday.
I could say that I only learned about this workshop through accident.
On 29 December 2020, I saw a post in a Facebook group where someone referenced this Twitter thread that Krista Vernoff wrote about having a life in the arts. I confess that I did not know who she was when I clicked the link.
I connected to what she wrote and saw that she was hosting this workshop. Her guests were actress/director/dancer/choreographer Debbie Allen, actress/writer Nia Vardalos, and author Cheryl Strayed.
I knew the phenomenal accomplishments of these ladies and thought the afternoon would be entertaining, if nothing else. I signed up.
When the event started, I felt excited to be in the presence of these creative powerhouses! Within a few minutes, their genuine natures had crossed the ether in the casual Zoom atmosphere and made me feel like they were mentors and friends I had known for years.
Of course, I took a loooong page of notes in Evernote! Almost every utterance from each of these accomplished women was a golden nugget of wisdom. Listed below are a few of the gems I heard:
- The most important thing is to learn how to take a note even if you don’t like it. — Krista Vernoff
- If the phone doesn’t ring with a job offer, call yourself and do your own project. — Nia Vardalos
- Don’t reject yourself. Don’t let someone else’s opinion or criticism come for you. — Debbie Allen
- Part of creating art is letting it go. — Cheryl Strayed
A Compelling Case Study
One part of the conversation was particularly thrilling to anyone in a creative field as we all can follow similar steps to our own destiny!
Early in her career, Cheryl wrote a series of essays as if she were an advice columnist named Sugar. She wrote them for free to create content for a friend’s web site.
At some point, she repackaged and repurposed those essays into a book named Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar.
Some time later, a director urged Nia to read Tiny Beautiful Things. Nia had a highly emotional experience in reading the book; she used the phrase “it unzipped me” to describe it.
Nia decided she wanted to adapt it for a stage play — not that she had any experience in stage adaptations.
She laughed as she said she had the AUDACITY to ask Cheryl Strayed for the permission to develop that adaptation.
Not only did Cheryl say “yes” to the adaptation, but she asked Nia to play Sugar in the stage production! Although Nia hadn’t even given herself permission to ask that question, she had no hesitation in her answer: “Yes, please!”
She and Cheryl lived on opposite coasts, so it cost Nia money to fly back and forth for meetings with Cheryl and later the Broadway production.
In its review of the play, the New York Times awarded a Critics Pick designation.
Nia commented that she’d made the least money on that play than any other professional pursuit, but it gave her the most professional satisfaction.
Now, the play has been done in numerous other cities and theatres. I’m sure when Cheryl wrote all of the columns originally way back when, she never would have dreamed that her creative output would take on the life that it did.
By the way, Nia did an incredible reading from the libretto that had us all in tears. Cheryl’s words and Nia’s interpretation left me breathless and further motivated me to continue improving my acting ability in order to bring even more nuance to my narration.
The Writing Prompts
At the workshop’s conclusion, I no longer thought of this workshop as an “accidental” find. It was more a case of “when the student is ready, the teacher appears.”
You’ll remember that I said Cheryl gave us 2 writing prompts. In writing the second one, I found marching orders to guide my path going forward!
She explained we must trust the clarity of our deepest inner truth. Every day, she has to face down the inner critic and start new. Cheryl said, “Every time you do it, you evolve. You hand yourself the key to your next becoming.”
The writing prompt she gave us was:
Dear [your name here],
This is your deepest inner truth, and here is what I know.
In her prelude to the second prompt, Cheryl stated that your power/strength/love is at the root of your desire. She encouraged us to not think about the obstacles we face, but to instead think how it feels when you have stepped into your power and are creating your art. “Who are you when you are doing what you are most deeply, divinely called to do?”
Here’s the writing prompt:
Dear [your name here],
This is your power, and this is who you are when you own me.
In both cases, you should set a timer for 10 minutes and then write everything that comes to you as fast as you can. Don’t stop to edit or fix mistakes. Just keep writing.
For me, the last 3 sentences I wrote about my power contained truths I knew but had tried to ignore.
I won’t ignore them any more.
If you do these 2 exercises, did you learn something about yourself? I hope you’ll share your comments below!
I love experiences like this….when Life gifts us with people and interactions through what appears to be by accident and delivers so much more than we asked for…and at just the time we needed it. All for our benefit. Thank you so so much for this post and for sharing the prompts, Karen.
Hi, Madeline! YES! That’s exactly how I felt!
I think the Universe is always trying to communicate with us.
Sometimes we just can’t hear it over all the noise in the world.
Sometimes we’re just too stubborn to listen! 🙂
Thanks so much for the comment.
Karen
Thank you Karen!! Sitting up at 3am contemplating my dreams and aspirations as a creative soul, budding book narrator. I needed this today… just as a I feel like giving up!! “Facing down the inner critic, and begin again”. Love this!!
Best to you
Hi, Carol! I know exactly what you mean. I have often thought about giving up.
In fact, I’ve even written about it on my blog at least twice:
Do You Feel Like Giving Up?
TDIMH — Perseverance Pays Off
Sometimes we’re not fighting the inner critic but are actually up against its fraternal twin RESISTANCE. Steven Pressfield’s terrific book The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles has been very helpful as I’ve fought both forces.
Thanks again for the comment, and keep on pushing through those blocks!
Karen
I was there too, Karen. I’m a writer and actor and audiobook narrator. Nice to meet you and find your wonderful site. I had just finished reading Wild. I was also familiar with the other women’s work, not to mention it was a fundraiser for the Actor’s Fund, so going was a no brainer. It was a delightful and informative workshop and I too felt like I had known all of those women personally for my whole life. I picked up Nia’s book Instant Mom and Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl at the library yesterday. Can’t wait to read all.
Thank you for this blog,
Best,
Lori Ada Jaroslow
Hi, Lori! Thanks for the nice note and kind words about my site! I apologize for my delay in posting your comment. However, things happen for a reason, and every moment has meaning, which I’ll address in a minute.
I also was prompted to get Cheryl’s book from the library. I had to wait for it, but it has now become available.
Even though that workshop occurred less than 3 weeks ago, I’ve found it difficult to remember it or my inner truth and power, much less maintain the direction I set for myself. I think the Universe caused me to miss seeing these comments until now so I not only would remember but would take action to move forward.
As a result, I’m adding that action as a recurring event on my calendar right now!
Since you’re a narrator, you’ll find lots more info on my site NarratorsRoadmap.com!
Thanks again for writing to me, and best wishes for your success!
Karen
Yes, Karen, thank you for putting your notes from this powerful moment in your life into this space that you share w us. I’m grateful I had the space in my life to read this post now.
I am touched.
(Too often I’ve measured whether a task was worth my having done it by the dollars it generated—and been disappointed w myself.)
My rumination from #1: my deepest inner truth: Lord Yeshua created in me JOY in language: love of His Word and all words.
#2: Create ART w these millions of words YHWH has given me—written through my hand (which entails my soul, mind, my whole being) for more than 50 years.
Who I am when I own my power:
I am a writer.
I am an actor of words.
This I must do.
Hi, Lynn! Thanks so much for sharing your profound reflections from these prompts with me! I apologize for my delay in posting and replying to your comment.
I particularly liked how you equated words written with your hand with your soul and being.
I have also fallen in the trap of using other people’s yardsticks for success. Pairing our creativity with our unique gifts definitely is its own reward!
Thanks again, and know that I am cheering you on as you write, act, and be all that you’re called to do!
Karen